Meaningful People

This is not a typical episode. Nachi Gordon sits down in Yerushalayim with Arnold Roth, whose 15 year old daughter Malki was murdered in the Sbarro pizzeria bombing on August 9, 2001. Arnold shares who Malki was, the last "I love you" she exchanged with her mother, and the twelve hours the family spent searching for her before the 2 a.m. phone call from her brothers.
 
But the story doesn't end there. Ahlam Tamimi, the woman who planned the attack, was sentenced to 16 life terms, freed in the 2011 Gilad Shalit deal, and has been living openly in Jordan ever since, where she even hosted her own TV show. She is the only woman on the FBI's Most Wanted Terrorists list, with a $5 million reward on her head, and Jordan still refuses to hand her over. Arnold explains why he calls the silence of governments and American Jewish leadership a betrayal, and what each of us can do about it.
 
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Timestamps:
 
0:00 Intro: Not a Typical Episode
3:53 Arnold Roth on Who Malki Was and Her Last Summer
9:05 August 9, 2001: The Sbarro Bombing
11:19 Twelve Hours Searching for Malki
16:26 The Shiva and Silence From the Israeli Government
19:48 A Zionist Let Down: Ahlam Tamimi Walks Free in Jordan
24:16 How Tamimi Planned and Carried Out the Attack
29:49 The Arrest, 16 Life Sentences, and a Secret Court Transcript
32:31 No Real Interest From the US as Tamimi Becomes a Prison Celebrity
36:12 The Shalit Deal: Tamimi at the Top of Hamas's List
39:22 Tamimi's TV Show in Jordan and Arnold Roth's Trip to Washington
43:35 2017: The US Charges Tamimi and Posts a $5 Million Reward
46:33 Jordan Declares Its Extradition Treaty Invalid
49:11 "A Foremost Priority": The Biden Administration Letter That Went Nowhere
51:58 If the US Really Wanted Tamimi, They Would Get Her
53:26 Billions for Jordan and the Silence of American Jewish Leaders
1:00:36 Everyone Knows Where Tamimi Lives, and the King of Jordan's VIP Treatment
1:03:06 "A Betrayal": What Arnold Roth Would Say to Tamimi
1:04:42 What Justice Would Change, and Losing Son-in-Law Naftali
1:09:58 The Malki Foundation and Nachi's Call to Sign the Petition

The shidduch system says stay in your lane: same hashkafa, same schools, and wait for the shadchan to call. Rivkah Fox thinks that's exactly what's keeping so many people single. With Blind Fate, the matchmaking platform she started on Instagram, she's throwing out the boxes and labels with anonymous bios, blind video dates and caricature resumes, and setting up couples the system would never put together, like a yeshivish guy with smicha and a modern Orthodox Ramaz grad who are now married with kids. Hundreds of singles in eight countries have gotten married through her setups, and instead of pushback, rabbanim and even a Rebbe's gabbai are calling her for help.
Nachi Gordon pushes her on all of it: whether crossing hashkafa lines puts someone's Yiddishkeit at risk, why she calls image the biggest problem in the shidduch world, how she gets paid without becoming a debt collector, and the week an entire family turned on her over one green check on the Loop app.
 
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In this special throwback episode,Nachi Gordon sits down with Rivka Shotkin, a 16 year old from Passaic and the youngest guest in Meaningful People history. On January 31, 2021, a family ski trip in Tannersville ended when Rivka missed a turn on her last run of the day and went straight into a tree, breaking 11 bones, puncturing both lungs, and severing her spinal cord. She walks us through waking up in the ICU nine days later, three months of rehab during COVID without being able to see her family, and landing back in the hospital with septic shock just five days after finally coming home.
 
What makes this one special is how Rivka talks about all of it. She opens up about how unhappy she was before the accident, the strange sense of peace she felt that weekend, why she now calls her injury a gift, and what she wants the community to understand about treating people in wheelchairs. It's funny, honest, and genuinely inspiring.
 
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Timestamps:
 
0:00 Intro: Meet Rivka Shotkin, MPP's Youngest Guest Ever
4:02 Welcome to the Studio and Growing Up in Passaic
7:23 The Ski Trip to Tannersville That Changed Everything
10:10 Airlifted to Albany and Waking Up Nine Days Later
13:20 Learning Rivka Was Paralyzed and Eli Portell's Advice
15:49 Anger, Dark Humor, and Taking It in Stride
18:04 Three Months of Rehab During COVID
22:07 Punishment, Test, or Gift?
23:33 Coming Home, a Wedding Cake, and Septic Shock
27:29 How to Accept What You Never Signed Up For
29:45 Unhappy Before the Accident and a Strange Premonition
31:57 Choosing Happiness and Strength From Rivka's Parents
34:59 Brain Surgeon Dreams and How to Treat People in Wheelchairs
38:20 Emunah, Hashgacha, and Not Being Afraid of the Pain
42:36 Rivka's Second Rosh Hashanah
46:17 Camp Simcha and Rivka's Support System
49:06 Poetry, Dreams, and Determination

Nachi Gordon hosts a live panel on sexual abuse in the frum community, recorded at an event presented by Ray of Hope and Amudim right before Rosh Hashanah. He's joined by Amudim founder Zvi Gluck, Amudim's Director of Education Avi Landa, Amudim Clinical Director Dr. Miriam Lankry, and Ray of Hope founder Zelda Brody, who opens the evening by sharing her own story of abuse and the years of silent suffering that led her to build Ray of Hope. Using live audience polling throughout the night, the panel works through how well the community actually handles abuse, how young the conversation about bodies and boundaries with kids should start, and what to say and what never to say when someone discloses to you.
From there the conversation moves into harder territory: which warning signs actually mean something, why going to a rav first is often not the full answer, when police need to be the first call, and how survivors navigate marriage, dating, and family relationships with relatives who still stay close to their abuser. Zvi, Avi, Miriam, and Zelda spend real time on why so many people still stay silent out of shame, push back hard on the idea that abusers often get more communal support than their victims, and close out the night on what they'd want every survivor in the room, and everyone listening at home, to walk away knowing.

This week, Nachi Gordon sits down with Charlie Harari for a wide-ranging conversation about what it actually means to love someone, honor your parents, and do teshuva. Charlie unpacks how modern therapy culture has replaced the role of a rebbe for a lot of people, and argues that real love isn't validation, it's pointing someone toward Hashem even when that's uncomfortable to hear. From there the conversation moves through honoring parents even when the relationship is hard, why teshuva is really about identity rather than behavior, and why tragedy seems to shake people awake to Hashem faster than blessing does.
 
Charlie also talks about Kelil, the app and upcoming book he co-wrote to help people work through jealousy, honoring parents, and other areas of avodas Hashem that are hard to figure out on your own.
 
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