DEEP&DIRTY with Lisa Opel

DEEP&DIRTY (DE): EVA HANSON - Tantra-Massage: Warum Frauen zögern.
Was passiert bei einer Tantra-Massage für Frauen wirklich? Wie läuft eine Intimmassage ab? Und was, wenn ich feucht werde, weine oder komme?
Mit Eva Hanson spreche ich über Lust, Scham, Grenzen und die ungewohnte Freiheit, einfach nur empfangen zu dürfen.
YouTube Video hier: https://youtu.be/82y9JGUHGaA
Über Eva: Eva Hanson ist Tantra-Masseurin, Berührungscoach und Autorin von Hautrausch: Inside Tantra-Massage. Sie arbeitet seit über 13 Jahren in diesem Bereich und ist auf Frauen spezialisiert.
Links: Website & Buch | Instagram | Steady | SexuelleKultur.com
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I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
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(ENG): SUSAN BRATTON: Throatgasms, Sex Tech and 1,000 Threesomes.
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Susan Bratton has had more than 1,000 threesomes, so who better to tell us what actually makes them hot?
In this episode of Deep and Dirty, Lisa and Susan talk about what makes group sex feel safe, connected and genuinely pleasurable. They explore how to communicate your needs, move beyond sexual performance and embrace the awkward moments that naturally happen when bodies come together.
The conversation also goes deliciously off-road into throatgasms, yoni massage, sex toys, long-distance intimacy, teledildonics and the science of expanding our capacity for pleasure. Susan also explains why toys are collaborators rather than competition, and why, at 65, she is having the best sex of her life.
About Susan Bratton: she is an intimacy expert, bestselling author and sex educator who has helped millions create more pleasure, passion and connection. For more than two decades, she has taught the pleasure-based sex education many of us never received.
Find Susan here:
Better Lover: https://betterlover.com/ | Susan’s website: https://susanbratton.com/ | Susan’s favourite pleasure tools: https://drivedesire.com/ | Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/ | YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterLover | Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/trustedhotsexadvisortomillions/ | LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanbratton/ | X / Twitter: https://x.com/susanbratton
I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com


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(ENG): LADY VYRA: Inside the mind of a dominatrix.
Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/R-kAHJTt3jA
In this episode, Lisa talks to Berlin-based dominatrix Lady Vyra about sensual dominance, BDSM as bodywork, and why kink can be so much more playful, tender and funny than the clichés suggest. There is movement, theatre, leather, breath, shame, power, and yes: an alien-looking vibrator that left one poor man beautifully confused.
Lady Vyra shares stories from her sessions, including couple play-coaching, women discovering their dominant side, and an extended chastity adventure through Berlin involving rules, check-ins, a prison room and a very official-sounding arousal ban. Somehow, between all the whips, cages and roleplay, it becomes a conversation about trust, embodiment and giving yourself permission to want what you want.
We also talk about why BDSM can feel almost meditative, how safe words and communication make deeper play possible, and why pleasure deserves a place next to massages, facials and all the other things we casually call self-care. Funny, juicy, thoughtful and surprisingly wholesome in the dirtiest possible way.
Find Lady Vyra: https://ladyvyra.com/ | Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ladyvyra_2/
I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com


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DEEP&DIRTY (DE): Augenkontakt ist intimer als Nacktheit. Und Oral ist meditativ.
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In dieser Folge geht es um zwei Themen, die erst mal wirken, als hätten sie nicht viel miteinander zu tun: Augenkontakt und Oral. Ich schaue mir beides erst getrennt an und merke dann ziemlich schnell: Am Ende geht es bei beiden um Nähe, Fokus und dieses kleine innere „Uff, das ist jetzt aber echt nah“.
Es geht darum, warum Augenkontakt sich manchmal intimer anfühlen kann als nackt sein. Warum angeschaut werden so viel auslösen kann. Und warum Oral für manche Menschen etwas Meditatives haben kann: beim Geben durch Fokus, beim Empfangen durch Vertrauen und Loslassen.
Eine Folge über Intimität, Kopfkino, Körpergefühl, kleine peinliche Momente, echte Aufmerksamkeit und die Frage, was passiert, wenn wir beim Sex ein bisschen weniger performen und ein bisschen mehr da sind.
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I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com


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(ENG): Are we headed towards a sexless society?
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Are we headed toward a sexless society, or is desire simply exhausted?
In this episode, I talk about dopamine, doomscrolling, dating apps, consent, body image, self-improvement culture and why intimacy can feel so complicated now. Not to shame anyone for having less sex, but to ask what desire needs in order to feel safe, playful and alive again.
Less performance. More play. Less perfection. More presence. Less self-surveillance. More tenderness.
I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com


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