DEEP&DIRTY with Lisa Opel

#79 (ENG): Alien play in the bedroom. How to get weird, wild & wonderfully curious.✨ Read the complete article - including a downloadable PDF packed with language examples, scene ideas, toys, and playful prompts - on my webpage.So, here’s a fun truth about humans: give us a strange-looking toy, a slightly odd texture, or a fantasy that lets us step out of our everyday bodies, and suddenly we’re all willing to explore the unknown like Mulder sprinting after a suspicious glow in the woods.Alien play isn’t about green body paint (unless you’re into that), nor do you need encyclopaedic knowledge of nebulae. It’s about curiosity. It’s about letting yourself touch, speak, and play differently. It’s about lifting the pressure to “perform” and instead asking, What would happen if we approached each other like we’ve never met a human before?It can be soft and exploratory, silly and giggly, or full of consensual power dynamics: “You will remain still for examination, human.” It can be a single line whispered during sex or a full scene with sensory scanning, strange toys, and non-verbal communication. Tentacle fantasies? Absolutely valid. Scientists examining mysterious specimens? Love it. Aliens with unusual biological quirks? Delicious.For many people, alien play is also a wonderfully inclusive way to experience desire. Aliens don’t come with preconceived ideas about bodies. They don’t expect genitals to look or behave a certain way. They don’t judge. They explore. And that makes the fantasy incredibly liberating for trans lovers, disabled partners, neurodivergent bodies, shy folks... Honestly? Anyone who wants to feel desired exactly as they are.Whether you want something as simple as adding a curious “What does this bit do?” to your next intimate moment, or you’re ready to strap in for a multi-tentacled mission, the beauty of alien play is that there’s no right way to do it. Just curiosity, imagination, and consent guiding you through the stars.Prefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#78 (DE): Brauch ich einen Sex Therapeuten?In dieser Folge geht es um die Fragen hinter der Frage.Um Lustlosigkeit, unterschiedliche Bedürfnisse, unausgesprochene Fantasien und das Gefühl, mit all dem allein zu sein. Eine ehrliche Einladung für Solo und Paare, erstmal hinzuhören, bevor man etwas reparieren will.Wenn Du mit mir darüber reden magst: www.mrs-opel.comWERBUNG // BEDUCATED - Manchmal beginnt Veränderung mit einer guten Frage. Wenn du herausfinden willst, wo du auf deiner sexuellen Reise stehst und was dir wirklich gut tut, klick auf den Link zum Beducated Quiz. Am Ende wartet eine individuelle Roadmap zu mehr sexuellem Glück. https://beducate.me/bg2601-ppmhPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... and never sent: horny, grieving and more poems.Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#77 (ENG): My 2025 RECAP.This year broke me open and I’m not putting myself back the same way. Here are my unfiltered, honest thoughts looking back.Prefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#76 (ENG): No vagina but all power with Ally Hensley.Ally Hensley was born without a vagina (MRKH). In this conversation, she walks us through the emotional and physical rollercoaster of growing up with a “missing parts” diagnosis. From shame, self-destruction and abusive relationships to healing, sex, friendship, boundaries, and reclaiming her pleasure and voice.Ally Hensley is an internationally recognised advocate for women’s health, an author, speaker, and the co-founder of MRKH Australia and Global MRKH. Born with MRKH syndrome, her work centres on breaking shame, expanding the narrative of womanhood, and supporting others through the emotional and physical realities of living with a “missing parts” diagnosis. Her memoir Vagina Uncensored challenges stigma with humour, honesty, and deep humanity. Ally also hosts the podcast Stigma Shakers, where she sparks conversations most people are too afraid to start.🔗 Website: www.allyhensley.com 🔗 Instagram: www.instagram.com/ally__hensley/ 🔗 Podcast: www.instagram.com/stigmashakers/ 🔗 Book: https://amzn.eu/d/9uzrC8XWatch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/aVI9bcDjoYUPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookMy book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe

#75 (DE): Sind Orgien einfacher als Dreier? Solo-Folge.Viele fantasieren von einem Dreier. Doch wenn es ernst wird, spüren wir oft mehr Unsicherheit als Lust. In diesem Artikel erfährst du, warum Dreier emotional aufgeladen sein können und wieso eine Orgie für manche entspannter ist.Diese Folge findet ihr auch als Video auf YouTube: https://youtu.be/aVI9bcDjoYUPrefer the transcript? Find it here.I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under [email protected] of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & CouplesMy book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an AudiobookNeed a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com Get full access to Mrs Lisa O | pleasepinchmehard at lisaopel.substack.com/subscribe