DEEP&DIRTY with Lisa Opel

(ENG): REBECCA MINOR @bi_invisibility: Bi+ invisibility, straight-assumed relationships, identity, motherhood, and finding the words for who you are.
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What happens when you know you are queer, but the world keeps reading your life as straight?
In this episode, I talk to Rebecca Minor, therapist, gender specialist, author, and co-founder of bi+ (in)visibility. We speak about bi+ invisibility, straight-assumed relationships, identity, motherhood, coming out, bisexual men, community, and the question so many people carry quietly: Am I queer enough?
Rebecca reminds us that your actions do not determine your identity. You can be bi, queer, pan, questioning, married, monogamous, a parent, private, visible, or still figuring things out. Your identity is still yours.
About Rebecca: Rebecca Minor is a queer therapist, educator, and founder of bi+ (in)visibility, an online community for bi+, pan, and queer people navigating life in straight-assumed relationships. Drawing from both her clinical work and lived experience, Rebecca helps people untangle identity, belonging, visibility, and what it means to be known. Her work has resonated with hundreds of thousands of people who have spent years wondering whether they are "queer enough" and looking for language, community, and connection. She is also the author of Raising Trans Kids: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting This.
Links: Instagram: @bi_invisibility | @gender.specialist | bi+ (in)visibility: genderspecialist.com/bi-invisibility | Rebecca’s book: Raising Trans Kids: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting This
I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)
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DEEP&DIRTY (DE): LOVIS WALTNER - Sexuelle Bildung beginnt an der Supermarktkasse.
YouTube Video hier: https://youtu.be/pAGUwrb1c84
BEDUCATED: Link hier oder: https://beduc.at/pd2627-ppmh | Rabatt-Code: pleasepinchmehard
ALLE LINKS ZU LOVIS:Website: https://www.hejlovis.com/ | Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hej.lovis.sxpaedagogik |E-Mail: loviswaltner@hejlovis.com
ÜBER DIESE FOLGE:
Was passiert, wenn ein Kind an der Supermarktkasse fragt, wie das Baby in den Bauch gekommen ist? Oder wenn es in der Badewanne den eigenen Körper entdeckt und sagt: “Das fühlt sich schön an”?
In dieser Folge spreche ich mit Sexualpädagogin Lovis Waltner über sexuelle Bildung, die nicht aus dem einen großen, peinlichen Aufklärungsgespräch besteht. Sondern aus vielen kleinen Momenten im Alltag.
Lovis macht Mut, nicht perfekt sein zu müssen. Wir dürfen sagen: “Das ist eine gute Frage, ich muss kurz überlegen.” Oder: “Das weiß ich gerade nicht, aber ich finde es heraus.” Wichtig ist, dass Kinder merken: Mit diesen Themen darf ich kommen.
Denn wenn Kinder keine Antworten von uns bekommen, suchen sie sie woanders. Bei Freund:innen, im Internet, auf Social Media oder irgendwann in Pornos.
DEEP & DIRTY findest du überall, wo es Podcasts gibt, und hier auf YouTube.
Über Lovis Waltner | Lovis Waltner ist Sexualpädagogin, Sexualberaterin und Jugend- und Heimerzieherin. Ihr Schwerpunkt liegt in der sexuellen Bildung für Kinder, Jugendliche, Eltern und Fachkräfte. Sie arbeitet unter anderem mit Familien, Schulen, Kindergärten und der Kinder- und Jugendhilfe.
In ihrer Arbeit geht es um Körperwissen, Gefühle, Grenzen, Sprache, Selbstbestimmung, digitale Medien und die Frage, wie Erwachsene Kinder und Jugendliche sicher, altersgerecht und unaufgeregt begleiten können.
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I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com


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DEEP&DIRTY (DE): HEIßE GEDANKEN FÜR HEIßE TAGE.
Es ist heiß. Zu heiß zum Arbeiten, zu heiß zum Schlafen, vielleicht sogar zu heiß für Sex. Aber Fantasie hält sich nicht an Temperaturen.
Heiße Gedanken für heiße Tage ist eine Solo-Folge über die Erotik des Unausgesprochenen. Über das Prickeln vor dem ersten Schritt. Über Menschen, die man kaum kennt und trotzdem mitnimmt. Und über Fantasien, die oft ganz leise anfangen.
Und ja, ich habe mich mal wieder ans Schreiben auf Deutsch gewagt. Das ist für mich immer noch ungewohnt, also seid lieb zu mir.
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I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com


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(ENG): LEA MISHRA // BIWEEKLY SHOP. A conversation about being Bi+, finding language for yourself, and creating everyday ways to feel seen.
Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/xhGTrC7TOME
In this episode of DEEP & DIRTY, I talk to Lea Mishra, founder of Biweekly, about Bi+ visibility, fashion as a quiet signal, coming out more than once, flirting with women, internalized biphobia, and why so many Bi+ people still feel invisible.
Lea shares how the question “Where is everyone?” led her to create Biweekly: a fashion brand using symbols, colors and everyday pieces to make Bi+ identity more visible without having to shout. We talk about being bi in straight-presenting relationships, feeling “too normal” to belong, the pressure and freedom around coming out, and why bisexuality is an attraction, not an action.
An episode for everyone who has ever felt not queer enough, too late, too hidden, or unsure whether they count.
About Lea
Lea Mishra is the founder of Biweekly, a fashion brand creating clothing and accessories for more Bi+ visibility in Europe. Before Biweekly, she co-founded POHA House, a co-living brand focused on community and connection. Lea lives in Zurich, is a mother of two, and is passionate about building brands that create real impact through visibility, belonging and community.
Links
Website: https://biweekly.shop/deInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/biweekly.shop/TikTok: @biweekly.shop
I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com


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(ENG): MARIE MORGENSTERN // MOONLIGHT SOIETY. Sex Work Without Shame: Feminism, Kink and Booking Desire.
Watch this on YouTube: https://youtu.be/EStZb82xf0k
In this episode, I speak with Marie Morgenstern, founder of Moonlight Society Berlin, an escort agency focused on kink-aware, emotionally intelligent companionship.
We talk about escort, kink, BDSM and fetish — but without shame, scandal or judgement. Marie shares why she founded the agency she once needed herself, how feminist sex work can look in practice, and why communication, consent, transparency and emotional intelligence are at the heart of her work.
We also explore why booking companionship can be especially powerful for women, queer people and anyone curious about desire, fantasy or kink — but unsure where to begin. A conversation about sex work, brave spaces, conscious encounters and the courage to ask for what you want.
ABOUT MARIE // Marie Morgenstern is the founder of Moonlight Society, a Berlin-based boutique escort agency for kink-aware, emotionally intelligent companionship. With a background in journalism, branding, art direction and digital marketing — and her own lived experience in sex work — Marie created Moonlight Society as an ethical, feminist and transparent alternative within the escort industry.
LINKS:
Moonlight Society: moonlightsociety-berlin.com // Instagram: @moonlightsociety_berlin // Email: marie@moonlightsociety-berlin.com
I'm your host, Lisa Opel and I'm here to take you on a liberating ride through the world of sex shops, clubs, toys, play and more!
Feel free to send me your questions and wishes anytime on Instagram or under yes@pleasepinchmehard.com
More of me on Instagram (@pleasepinchmehard) and my webpage (www.pleasepinchmehard.com)
My book SEX SEX SEX - Your Workbook for Singles & Couples
My book GIVE IT TO ME! on Amazon (E-Book & Print) and Spotify as an Audiobook
My book SAVED IN NOTES... on Amazon (E-Book, Softback & Hardback)
Need a one-on-one session with a Confidante? I've got you: www.mrs-opel.com


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