409 - The Five Core Beliefs That Keep High-Achieving Women Stuck (And the Nervous System Shifts That Set You Free)
Ever notice how you can know what you need… yet still feel unable to follow through?That gap — between what you know and what you do — is almost never a mindset problem.It’s a nervous system pattern.And as we head into the holidays — a time that amplifies emotional labor, invisible load, family dynamics, and patterned responsibility — your body’s old beliefs tend to get louder, not quieter.Today’s episode uncovers five core beliefs that keep high-achieving women stuck, not because you’re doing anything wrong, but because your nervous system learned these beliefs as a way to keep you safe.Inside this episode, we explore:✔️ Why you say yes when you’re already at capacity✔️ The neuroscience behind “I know better… but I still do it”✔️ The five survival beliefs your nervous system holds onto (and the unmet safety needs underneath each one)✔️ Somatically aligned reframes your body can genuinely believe, integrate, and trust✔️ Tiny nervous-system practices to shift these patterns in real time — especially during holiday stress, family pressure, or emotional overwhelmThis episode isn’t about forcing confidence, using willpower, or repeating affirmations your body doesn’t believe.It’s about understanding your physiology — so your choices finally feel possible.Because when your nervous system feels safe?✨ Boundaries become easier.✨ Your “yes” becomes honest.✨ Your “no” becomes grounded.✨ The pressure to perform, please, and overfunction softens.✨ You move through the holidays with more clarity, calm, and capacity.If you’ve spent years being the dependable one… the capable one… the woman who “can handle anything”… this episode will feel like relief, recognition, and an exhale your body has been waiting for.- Join the Burnout Recovery Blueprint Waitlist!
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408 - 5 Signs You’re Operating Beyond Capacity — And the Everyday Patterns Draining Your Energy
Most high-achieving women don’t burn out because they’re incapable…they burn out because they’ve been conditioned to ignore their human capacity.Today’s episode is a look at what happens when you live beyond your limits for too long — the subtle, everyday ways your nervous system tries to warn you, and the clarity that emerges when you finally start honoring the margins built into your design.Inside this conversation, we explore: ✔️ The neuroscience of capacity — how allostatic load affects your capacity and executive function ✔️ Five quiet signs you’re already beyond your limits, including irritability, rushing, emotional reactivity, feeling touched-out, and end-of-day procrastination ✔️ How your body communicates depletion, long before burnout becomes visible ✔️ How to begin honoring your actual limits so you stop burning energy you don’t realistically haveThis isn’t about dimming your drive or lowering your standards.It’s about aligning your ambition with your biology — so you can show up with more clarity, presence, patience, creativity, and peace.If you’ve been operating on grit, overriding your cues, or believing that “being strong” means pretending you’re limitless, this episode will feel like honesty, relief, and a grounded path back to yourself.- Join the Burnout Recovery Blueprint Waitlist!
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407 - Energy Drains Aren’t a Time Problem — They’re a Boundary Problem
If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, constantly “on,” or quietly resentful even while doing everything “right”… this episode is going to land.Because here’s the truth most high-capacity women were never taught:You can’t honor your energy without boundaries — and every time you override your limits, your nervous system pays the price.We’re dismantling the modern myth that energy is a mindset problem… and revealing the real reason you feel depleted, overwhelmed, or numb:nervous-system-based boundary collapse.Whether it shows up as people-pleasing, chronic overfunctioning, emotional caretaking, guilt when resting, or simply the inability to say no… your body keeps the score long before you mentally “notice” you’re burned out.Inside this conversation, you’ll learn:✔️ The neuroscience of energy leaksHow fawning, over-giving, and constant striving keep your body in chronic fight-or-flight — and why shutdown, numbness, and exhaustion often follow.✔️ What boundary collapse really looks like in high-achieving womenThe subtle signs you’ve normalized (resentment, irritability, over-responsibility, low bandwidth, self-abandonment) — and how your body interprets them as danger cues.✔️ Why your limits aren’t flaws — they’re design featuresHow honoring your God-given capacity actually expands your ability to show up with clarity, purpose, and peace.✔️ Why honoring your energy is impossible without nervous-system alignmentAnd why no planner, routine, or productivity hack will give you the bandwidth your body doesn’t have.- Join the Burnout Recovery Blueprint Waitlist!
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406 - 3 Reasons Why Play Might Be the Most Productive Thing You’ll Do This Week
What if the thing you’re missing isn’t more discipline — it’s more play?Not structured play.Not “fun time” on your calendar.Not something productive or Pinterest-worthy.Real play.Pointless, joyful, silly, inefficient play.In this episode, we unpack:✔️ Why a lack of play quietly fuels anxiety, irritability, and burnout✔️ The neuroscience of how play expands creativity, resilience, and emotional regulation✔️ How play restores executive function — the part of your brain responsible for decision-making and focus✔️ Simple ways to bring play back into your life (even if you feel disconnected from it)This isn’t about adding another task to your day.It’s about remembering what your nervous system already knows:Play is medicine.Play is regulation.Play brings you back to yourself.If you’ve been efficient, responsible, and exhausted, this episode will feel like an exhale — and an invitation to feel alive again.- Join the Burnout Recovery Blueprint Waitlist!
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405 - The Power of Self-Compassion in Navigating High-Stress Parenting Moments with Anna Seewald of Authentic Parenting
If motherhood ever cracked you open in ways you didn’t expect—old grief surfacing, worthiness wobbling, “Who even am I now?”—this conversation will feel like oxygen.I’m joined by Anna Seewald—Armenian-born educator, psychologist, and parenting & co-parenting specialist. After surviving the 1988 Spitak earthquake at 13 (losing her mother, home, friends, and community), Anna built a life and practice in the U.S. For the last 17 years she’s worked with parents in New Jersey as a therapist and divorce mediator, helping families heal patterns at the root—without perfectionism, shame, or Band-Aid fixes.We’re diving into: ✔️ Trauma-informed parenting 101: why early loss/relational wounds resurface in pregnancy and the “dark side” of early motherhood—and how to stop repeating unconscious patterns ✔️ Worthiness, shame, and the nervous system: why self-compassion (not self-critique) is the real regulator—and how to practice acceptance even when you don’t “love” every part of you ✔️ Practical repair tools: catching the harsh inner critic, shifting from people-pleasing to needs-honoring, body gratitude over body punishment, and simple in-the-moment resets (hand-on-heart, kinder self-talk, micro-choices)If you feel like you’ve been hanging onto parents for dear life—or minimizing your story because it’s not “capital-T” trauma—this episode offers grounded hope and clear next steps.🎧 Press play to learn how to honor your history, rewire toward gentleness, and lead your family from a steadier, kinder core.- Join the Burnout Recovery Blueprint Waitlist!
Über Alive & Well – Nervous System, Productivity, Time Management, Somatic Tools, Work-Life Balance, Burnout, Anxiety
On paper? You’re crushing it.But your body’s telling a different story: fatigue, anxiety, brain fog, and a burnout you just can’t seem to shake.Welcome to Alive & Well—the podcast for high-achieving women ready to burnout-proof their lives by rewiring their nervous system for clarity, energy, productivity, and ease.I’m your host, Michelle Grosser, Esq.—trial attorney turned nervous system strategist, wife, mom, and entrepreneur (x3).After burning out hard trying to do it all, I discovered the missing piece: nervous system regulation. Now I help ambitious, high-capacity women like you build a life that’s sustainable and successful—where your nervous system becomes your superpower, not your saboteur.Around here, you’ll learn:✔️ Burnout-proof systems for time management and productivity✔️ Science-backed tools for nervous system and emotional regulation✔️ Somatic practices that help you stay grounded & calm under pressure✔️ Faith-rooted wisdom for leading from overflow—not overdrive✔️ Boundaries that protect your purpose—not just your calendar✔️ Sustainable strategies for stress management, presence, and work-life balanceIt’s time to break the burnout cycle, reclaim your well-being, and lead with the kind of peace that doesn’t cost your ambition.Hit follow and start your path to living Alive & Well. New episodes every Tuesday and Friday.
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