She's So Lucky

#327: If you want 2026 to feel different — clearer, more aligned, less like you’re holding your breath — you’re going to have to break a few rules. Especially the quiet ones you’ve been following without realizing it.In this solo episode, we’re kicking off the year by tossing out the performative resolutions and getting honest about the unspoken rulebook that’s been running your life. You’re not behind. You’re not stuck. But you might still be living by stories, standards, and timelines that were never yours to begin with.This is about rewriting those scripts — and choosing yourself more boldly than you ever have before.In This Episode:The invisible rules keeping you small — and how to spot themWhy being “the good girl” is blocking your growthThe problem with playing it safe (and how to build risk tolerance)What to do with the “I should be further by now” spiralThe exact rules I broke in 2025 — and how they changed everythingThe difference between operating from your past vs. your future selfA 3-step strategy to build a year that feels luckyHow to take bold action without burning yourself outWhy rebellion can be soft, focused, and wildly effectiveThe rules I’m leaving behind this year — and what I’m replacing them withYou’re not here to play by invisible rules anymore. You’re here to design something intentional — and this is where that begins.Episode Links:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.Hungry Root: Go to hungryroot.com/lucky to get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#326: You don't have to play fair to win — you just have to play like you know who you are.This week, we’re re-airing a conversation that’s packed with big energy, boss-level insight, and the kind of clarity that only comes from betting on yourself — again and again.Tricia Lee is a serial entrepreneur, luxury real estate broker, and breakout star of Owning Manhattan on Netflix. But before the show, before the million-dollar listings, and long before she was mentoring the next generation — she was figuring it out like the rest of us: building businesses, walking away from things that weren’t working, and learning how to stop shrinking her magic to make other people comfortable.If you're in a season of transition, ready to quit something (or everything), or just need a little reminder of how powerful you already are — this one’s for you.In This Episode:The real reason Tricia left corporate America — and how she used anger to fuel her glow-upKnowing the difference between a growth challenge and pure chaos (and why perseverance isn’t always the flex)What to do when you're the most prepared and the most underestimated person in the roomThe truth about pivoting: how Tricia went from beauty entrepreneur to top NYC real estate brokerMental toughness, mindset shifts, and why being your biggest fan isn’t arrogance — it’s freedomHow to show up as that version of you, even when you’re still buildingAdvice for women who’ve been conditioned to come in last — and are done with itThis is the kind of conversation that makes you sit taller. Save it. Revisit it. Share it with the friend who needs a nudge to take up more space.Episode Links:Follow Tricia on Instagram @lovetricialeeFor exclusive listings, visit tricialee.com.Sponsors:Vionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.Cotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonJones Road Beauty: Visit jonesroadbeauty.com and use code LUCKY for a free Cool Gloss with your first purchase.Keep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’re ready to step into your most aligned, magnetic, and wildly lucky era — this episode is for you. We're closing out the year with a roundup of the 7 most powerful, perspective-shifting lessons from the She's So Lucky conversations that had you replaying, journaling, and texting the group chat.These aren’t just motivational soundbites — they’re practical, lived-in wisdom from women who’ve made bold pivots, shut down doubt, and redefined what success looks like on their own terms.Whether you’re manifesting a fresh start, navigating a career leap, or just trying to stay focused without losing yourself in the hustle — this episode will remind you who you are, what you're capable of, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission.In This Episode:How to stop being your own biggest critic and actually back yourselfKnowing when it’s time to walk away (from a job, a relationship, or a version of you that no longer fits)The underrated superpower that took Ami Colé from idea to industry disruptorGabrielle Union on choosing softness and stillness in a loud, demanding worldThe mindset shift Alexis Barber used to unapologetically step into her confidenceHow to rebrand your life — without waiting for January 1Taylor Rooks on what to do when people underestimate you (and why that’s not always a bad thing)Whether you're traveling for the holidays, cleaning your kitchen, or vision-boarding for 2026 — save this one. It's the blueprint.Revisit the Full Episodes:Are You Being Your Own Biggest Hater? Let’s Talk About It [Bonus]How to Know When It’s Time to Leave—Your Job, Your Partner, or Your Old Self with Nicole WaltersThe Power of Focus with Diarrha N'DiayeGabrielle Union on Embracing Vulnerability, Moving Through Creative Blocks, and No Longer Going 50/50Stop Humbling Yourself: Owning Your Confidence with Alexis BarberHow to Rebrand Your Life in 2025How to Win When People Underestimate You with Taylor RooksSponsors:Notion: Notion Agent can do anything you can do in Notion. Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at notion.com/balancedVionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonKeep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#324: If you've ever wondered what it really takes to build a multimillion-dollar brand from scratch — beyond the polished Instagram posts and the "overnight success" stories — this conversation is for you. Today I'm sitting down with Siff Haider, co-founder of Arrae and host of the Dream Bigger podcast, who turned wedding savings into a $100M wellness empire while keeping her sanity, her marriage, and her authenticity intact.Siff gets refreshingly real about the unglamorous early days: bootstrapping, sounding like "two little bitches" on investor calls (her dad's words, not mine), and sweating through her first podcast recording. She shares the mindset shifts that helped her step into her power, why she treats customers like influencers, and how she built a team of 33 people who care as deeply as she does.This episode is for you if:You're building something and terrified of looking cringeYou're trying to figure out when to take funding (and how much)You want to understand how to scale without losing your soulYou're navigating the balance between data and intuition as a founderYou're curious about building a personal brand that's bigger than your businessIf you enjoyed this episode, leave us five stars — I heard that if you rate the show five stars, something lucky happens. Test that theory, and make sure you're subscribed on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube. See you next week!Episode Links:Learn more about Arrae at arrae.comFollow Siff on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/siffhaiderFollow Siff on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@siffhaiderListen to The Dream Bigger Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2CDL6BcfZc6AmQeRZpjAxs?si=e095083332ee43eaThe Alter Ego Effect by Todd Herman: https://bookshop.org/a/55347/9780062838636Sponsors:Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonQuince: Find gifts so good you’ll want to keep them with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.BBoutique: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! Visit https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/shessolucky-podcastKeep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#323: Nothing is more impactful to our ability as women to create our own luck than the journey of motherhood—how we embark on it, and when. That's why I sat down with Dr. Catha Fischer, reproductive endocrinologist and Medical Director at Spring Fertility, for this critical bonus episode to demystify reproductive health, fertility, and the power of reproductive autonomy. We dive into what every woman in her 20s and 30s needs to know, from understanding your menstrual cycle (which Dr. Fischer calls your "fifth vital sign") to the truth about how birth control impacts your fertility, and what egg freezing actually entails. This is an honest, judgment-free conversation about removing the shame around fertility and making informed, empowered choices for your future.This episode is for you if: You want to understand your reproductive options regardless of your relationship status. You're on hormonal birth control and are curious about what's *really* happening with your natural menstrual cycle. You've been frustrated by the shame and secrecy surrounding fertility struggles or feel like you're "running out of time." You want a factual breakdown of the egg freezing process, including pricing, and outcome data. You're having a hard time getting your questions about reproductive health answered and are seeking patient-centered care.Episode Sponsor:Visit springfertility.com and use code LUCKY for $150 off your initial fertility consult (virtual or in-person). Episode Links: Follow Les on IG @lesalfred Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod Follow Les on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lesalfred Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shessoluckypod Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcase Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.