PEPTALK | Take the pressure off yourself this Christmas
If Christmas already feels like too much, this December pep-talk series is your support system for navigating the mental-load Olympics.
Today’s episode is your reminder that you’re allowed to do it differently. The pressure on mothers at this time of year is enormous — the mental load, the expectations, the never-ending lists — and most of it lands squarely on our shoulders. Zoe shares a simple, grounding reframe to help you take the weight off and bring the joy back.
In the first of our December pep talks, Zoe breaks down why the festive season can feel overwhelming and how to step out of the “shoulds” that pile up as the year draws to a close. Instead of chasing perfection, she invites you to focus on the feeling you want to create — for yourself and your family — and offers a practical tool to help you get there.
In this pep talk, you’ll hear:
The explosion of Christmas expectations (and why mums carry the load)
How to stop doing everything and focus on how you want the season to feel
Zoe’s simple Do / Ditch / Delegate method to cut the overwhelm fast
Why real magic comes from presence, not perfection
Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing.
Feeling like you’re carrying it all? Download your FREE Mental Load Cheat Sheet and learn how to start feeling lighter, even if nothing in your life changes.
Connect with Zoe:
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Get Zoe’s Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations’
This Motherkind episode is sponsored by:
Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women’s supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply.
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How to build confidence + believe in yourself again (even when you’re knackered)
Motherhood didn’t make you lose your confidence - it buried it under the mental load.
In this powerful episode, I’m sharing the five exact steps I used to rebuild my confidence from the ground up after becoming a mum. These are simple, practical tools you can use even if you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and only have seven minutes a day to yourself.
Because here’s the truth no one tells us: becoming a mother lowers your confidence and self-belief for up to three years. And yet… we’re never prepared for it. We’re never told why it happens. We’re certainly never shown how to rebuild ourselves from the inside out.
In this conversation, you’ll learn:
The surprising reason confidence drops in motherhood
How to quiet your inner critic
The truth about self-worth
How to stop comparison spirals
Why celebrating tiny wins matters more than big achievements
Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable
You can listen to the Dr Nicole Le Pera episode that Zoe references here: How to heal yourself with Dr Nicole Le Pera
Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing.
Feeling different since becoming a mother? Get clarity on who you’re becoming now and download your FREE Matrescence Cheat Sheet
Connect with Zoe:
Follow Zoe on Instagram
Get Zoe’s Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations’
This Motherkind episode is sponsored by:
Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women’s supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply.
For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind
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MOMENT | Never enough time? Try this new way to plan work and home
If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning too many plates, constantly catching up, and running on empty, this Moment is for you.
In this short clip, Rachael Twumasi-Corson, entrepreneur, writer, and mum of four, shares two brilliant tools that helped her move from burnout to balance. She talks about doing an honest self-audit, what’s really taking up your time and energy and her simple 5-4-3-2-1 method that brings calm and focus back into busy days.
We chose this moment because it’s such a powerful reminder that harmony isn’t about doing it all, it’s about doing what truly matters. Rachael’s approach is so compassionate and practical, and I think it’s going to give you a real sense of relief and possibility.
In this Moment, you’ll learn:
A five-minute daily ritual to help you feel calmer and more in control
How to reset your priorities with honesty and kindness
Why scheduling joy and rest is as important as work
The mindset shift that helps you become the conductor of your own life
This Moment is a gentle invitation to pause, breathe, and remind yourself: you don’t need to juggle everything perfectly, you just need to lead your life with intention.
If you liked this moment, listen to the full episode: The Lie of Work-Life Balance (And What Actually Works) with Rachael Twumasi-Corson
Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing.
Feeling like you’re carrying it all? Download your FREE Mental Load Cheat Sheet and learn how to start feeling lighter, even if nothing in your life changes.
Connect with Zoe:
Follow Zoe on Instagram
Get Zoe’s Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations’
This Motherkind episode is sponsored by:
Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women’s supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply.
For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind
Get 15% off OneSkin with the code MOTHERKIND at https://www.oneskin.co/motherkind
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Fun: why we've lost it, why it matters and how to get it back
If you miss the lighter, sillier version of yourself you used to be, this episode will help you find her again — even in the chaos of family life.
Across thousands of conversations in the Motherkind community, one theme comes up again and again: fun quietly disappears for so many of us. Playfulness slips away. And most mothers aren’t even sure how to begin getting it back.
In this uplifting and deeply reassuring episode, I sit down with play researcher and writer Emma Worrollo to explore why fun matters far more than we realise, not as something extra on the to-do list, but as a powerful support for resilience, regulation and connection.
Emma explains how we slowly train playfulness out of ourselves as adults, why that leaves us feeling flat or overwhelmed, and what happens when we start to bring back even the tiniest moments of joy. Her “1% rule” is one of my favourite tools, a gentle, doable way to shift your mood without needing more time, childcare or energy.
This conversation is your reminder that joy isn’t frivolous. It’s essential. And you absolutely deserve moments of lightness, even in the seasons that feel heavy.
In this conversation, you’ll learn:
Why fun disappears in motherhood — and how to bring it back
The simple shift from play to playfulness that changes everything
How playfulness strengthens resilience, regulation and connection
Small 1% tweaks that make everyday life feel lighter
Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing.
If you liked this episode, listen to a 2021 episode with Emma Worrollo next: The Power of Play
Feeling different since becoming a mother? Get clarity on who you’re becoming now and download your FREE Matrescence Cheat Sheet
Connect with Zoe:
Follow Zoe on Instagram
Get Zoe’s Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations’
This Motherkind episode is sponsored by:
Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women’s supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply.
For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind
Get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription at calm.com/motherkind
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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MOMENT | The Biggest Mistakes I've Made Growing Motherkind
There was a time when I thought slowing down meant falling behind.
In this short clip, I share one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned about ambition, motherhood and burnout. After years of building Motherkind, growing my family and saying yes to everything, I realised that success means nothing if it costs your wellbeing.
I chose this Moment because it’s one so many of us will recognise, that quiet fear that if we pause, everything we’ve worked for might disappear. But I’ve learned that rest doesn’t erase progress. You don’t lose momentum by slowing down; you find yourself again.
This reflection is raw and real, about miscarriage, early motherhood, burnout, and how I kept going when I probably should have stopped. My hope is that it helps you feel seen, and maybe even reminds you to give yourself a little more grace in your own busy season.
In this Moment, you’ll hear:
Why I kept working through one of the hardest seasons of my life
The truth about “having it all” and what I wish I’d done differently
How fear and scarcity can disguise themselves as drive
The mindset shift that finally helped me rest without guilt
This Moment is a gentle reminder that your worth isn’t measured by how much you can carry, it’s in how deeply you care and how kindly you treat yourself along the way.
If you liked this moment, listen to the full episode: The Work Series: My Biggest Mistakes And Regrets - Zoe’s Story
Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing.
Ready to feel like yourself again? Download your FREE Matrescence Cheat Sheet
Connect with Zoe:
Follow Zoe on Instagram
Get Zoe’s Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations’
This Motherkind episode is sponsored by:
Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women’s supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply.
For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind
Get 15% off OneSkin with the code MOTHERKIND at https://www.oneskin.co/motherkind
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Motherhood is incredible. It's also incredibly challenging, especially with the high pressured, fast paced world we live in today. The Motherkind Podcast hosted by Motherkind founder and coach Zoe Blaskey, is on a mission to bring you some of the best wellbeing teachers in the world to help you find your calm, happy place in the madness of modern mum life. Each episode features a different teacher from the world of self-development and wellbeing or a mum on a path of self-enquiry. We cover everything from how to stay calm in a toddler meltdown, to dealing with anxiety, to self care and simple tools to help you have a better day.