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What happens when you finally stop pretending you want freedom, and actually tell God the truth?

In this deeply honest conversation, Ben Fitzgerald shares his story of struggling with pornography while walking in ministry, the moment God confronted what he was still keeping as an option, and how real freedom finally came when everything was brought into the light.

Ben opens up about the tension of being anointed but still broken, the night he told God, “I want this, but I do not want to want it,” and why honesty from spiritual leadership played a crucial role in his deliverance. He also shares how Bethel leadership refused to let him step into pastoral leadership while he was secretly battling pornography and how that loving but firm boundary became part of his healing.

We’ll talk about:
What it actually looks like when God rescues someone from addiction
Why wanting freedom and being free are not the same thing
The moment Ben realized pornography was still an option in his heart
How honest accountability broke the power of secret sin
Why spiritual compromise dulls our sensitivity to God
What the fear of the Lord really looks like in a believer’s life
What to say to someone who feels spiritually numb or stuck
Why fighting sexual sin alone never works

If you feel trapped in a private battle, tired of starting over, or afraid that your sin disqualifies you from God’s calling, this episode is for you. Ben’s story is proof that freedom is possible, but it requires truth, surrender, and courage.

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Single Christian men sent in their real dating questions and we brought three single Christian women into the studio to answer them honestly.

From pursuit and communication to attraction, safety, boundaries, and ghosting, this episode pulls back the curtain on how Christian women actually think and feel when it comes to dating and relationships.

We’ll talk about:
What Christian women actually want in a future husband
The biggest red flags that make women lose interest fast
How women read pursuit and when it feels too intense
How to tell if she is open to being pursued or just sees you as a friend
How to communicate emotionally without overwhelming her
What actually makes a woman feel safe and secure in a relationship
First date mistakes you should absolutely avoid
Why women ghost and what is really behind it
How women think about attraction, looks, and turn offs
How women want men to talk about porn and sexual struggles
The most confusing things men do in the talking stage

If you have ever felt unsure about how to pursue well, communicate clearly, or understand what women actually want, this episode will give you clarity and probably save you from a few avoidable mistakes.

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Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here.⁠⁠

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

What do Christian men actually want when it comes to dating, attraction, and a future wife? We brought three single Christian guys into the studio and asked them the questions single Christian women really want answered.

From red flags and first dates to lust, attraction, porn, ghosting, and why guys hesitate to make a move, this episode gives you a real look inside how Christian men think when it comes to dating and relationships.

We’ll talk about:
What Christian men actually look for in a future wife
The biggest red flags that make guys lose interest fast
How men read interest and what hints actually work
Why some guys take forever to ask a girl out
How to tell if he is just friendly or actually interested
How much physical appearance actually matters
The difference between attraction and lust from a guy’s perspective
Why men ghost and what is really going on there
How men think about porn, purity, and self control
What men are doing now to prepare for marriage
The most confusing things women do in the talking stage
Dating flops that were painful then but funny now

If you have ever wondered what men are thinking but were too afraid to ask, this episode will clear up a lot of confusion and probably challenge a few assumptions.

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Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here.⁠⁠

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

You sent in the real questions about sex, temptation, emotional attachment, and dating as a Christian in 2025. And honestly? You are not alone.

In this Q&A episode, we answer your toughest, most honest questions about self control, boundaries, ghosting, and what to do when the people around you are making choices you do not agree with.

From friends who want a “wild phase,” to catching feelings too fast, to trying to build intimacy without crossing lines, we talk through what Scripture actually says and how to live it out without shame, fear, or hypocrisy.

We’ll talk about:

How to respond when a friend wants casual sex
The difference between confronting a believer and loving a nonbeliever
Practical ways to handle sexual temptation as a single Christian
How to stop chasing validation and break unhealthy emotional attachment
How to build intimacy without sexual compromise
What to do when someone flirts with you and then ghosts you
Why communication matters more than chemistry

If you have ever felt confused, conflicted, or lowkey messed up when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships, this episode is for you.

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

What happens when Christians share their most unhinged dating stories? We’re back with 10 of the wildest, cringiest, and most unbelievable moments we’ve ever heard on the podcast.

In this episode, we blind react to 10 new stories from our listeners. From a guy who said “you’re not that ugly,” to someone finding out they were being pursued by a distant cousin, to a stalker from a Christian dating app, these submissions took us on a rollercoaster.

We’ll also dive into:
How to tell the difference between red flags and straight-up chaos
Why “God told me we’re getting married” is not a green light
Why some Christian environments accidentally create fear-based dating habits
When someone’s spirituality becomes manipulation
What healthy pursuit actually looks like

If you’ve ever walked away from a date thinking “no one will believe this story,” you’re in good company. These stories will make you laugh, gasp, and maybe even feel a little better about your own dating history.

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Have an insane Christian dating story that should be read on a future episode? Submit it ⁠⁠here.⁠⁠

Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here.⁠⁠

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Connect with us:

➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc
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Miss our last podcast episode?
Catch it here ➡︎ ⁠https://youtu.be/Hyrc13gCzzE⁠

God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.