Be Unmessablewith: The Podcast hosted by Josselyne Herman-Saccio

What if fulfillment is not found in the next goal but in your nervous system, right now. In this conversation, On this episode of Be Unmessablewith the podcast I sat down with Matthias Schmitt, a former tech and events founder who walked away from the  party-entrepreneur grind to create the Expansion State Method. We get real about success without satisfaction, how to move from survival to creation, and what the next evolution of leadership looks like when you lead your inner world first.

High achievers are great at building companies and checking boxes. Many still feel empty. If your happiness is tied to a metric or a title, you will keep chasing and never arrive. This episode gives you simple, embodied ways to regulate your state, return to presence, and lead from wholeness so fulfillment is no longer a moving target.

What you will learn
How to catch yourself in agitation or collapse and shift into calm clarity

A grounded way to use breath and micro-movement to regulate on the spot

How to practice presence on stage and speak from the room, not a script

If you’re ready to stop managing stress and start mastering your state, this episode will meet you right where you are. Not with another framework to chase, but with a way to come home to yourself, so you can create, lead, and live your dreams now, not someday.

Grab my Free Instant Reset guide: A simple guide to getting unstuck into action

Find Matthias at: 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matthias.schmitt.official/  

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthias-schmitt-speaking-coaching

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/matthias.schmitt.eu/

Connect With Josselyne
Website: beunmessablewith.com
Instagram: @beunmessablewith

If you’ve ever blown up, shut down, or spiraled out in a high-stakes moment, this episode is for you.

Because triggers don’t just mess with your emotions. They mess with your leadership, your results, and your relationships.

Today, I’m giving you a system to stop letting reactivity run the show. You’ll learn how to catch yourself in the heat of the moment, rewire your response, and turn every trigger into a catalyst for growth instead of sabotage.

After almost 40 years of coaching high-performing entrepreneurs, I can tell you this: the people who thrive aren’t the ones with the least stress. They’re the ones who know how to use their stress as fuel.

You’ll learn:
The three red flag categories your body uses to signal you're about to react

How to spot your unique trigger patterns in real time before damage is done

A 10-second tool to stop the spiral and reset your nervous system

This isn’t about ignoring your emotions. It’s about using them.

Because when you start seeing your triggers as teachers, you stop being at the mercy of your past and start creating your future on purpose, in real time.

You don’t need more willpower. You need a system. This is it.

If you're ready to stop reacting and start rising, press play.

And if you're done with burnout and ready to master the art of being unmessable with, book a session and let’s talk about building your next level together.

Want to discover your level of UNMESSABLEWITHNESS and your default mode as well as how to elevate your power and resilience? 

Take the Unmessablewith Archetype 3-minute quiz

Connect With Josselyne
Website: beunmessablewith.com
Instagram: @beunmessablewith

If you’ve ever felt like you’re building big things but still missing something deeper, this episode is going to hit home.

Today, I’m talking to Justin Breen, founder of The Epic Life Network and two AI-powered music companies, who’s on a mission to connect real visionaries and wake people up to their own creative power, not in theory, but in practice.

This is a no-hype conversation about what it really takes to live from vision, not trauma. We talk business, relationships, creation, and why logic without heart is killing more dreams than failure ever will.

You’ll hear:
How to tell if you're a visionary or just performing ambition on repeat

Why most high performers are masking pain with productivity

The connection between trauma, creativity, and visionary power

How AI and music can unlock the soul and bypass the brain

This is a soul-level conversation that cuts through the noise.
It’s not about doing more. It’s about remembering who you are and creating from that space, not to fix, not to chase, but to fulfill.

If you’re tired of high-achieving burnout, performative success, or relationships that shrink your light, press play.
And if it speaks to you, don’t keep it to yourself. Share it with someone who’s ready to stop living by default and start creating on purpose.

Want to discover your level of UNMESSABLEWITHNESS and your default mode as well as how to elevate your power and resilience? 
Take the Unmessablewith Archetype 3-minute quiz

Check out Justin’s AI music company, where you can turn lyrics into songs

Find Justin At:
https://theepicfit.com/about/

Connect With Josselyne
Website: beunmessablewith.com
Instagram: @beunmessablewith

Here’s something that might sting a little. If you are constantly making excuses for someone’s behavior, you may be in love with your idea of them, not the actual person. In this episode of Be Unmessablewith the podcast, I’m talking about the subtle but exhausting habit of protecting relationships that are not real. Not just romantic relationships, but friendships, work dynamics, and family relationships where you are hiding parts of who you are in the name of keeping the peace.

When you hide yourself, it can feel like you are protecting the relationship, but what you are really doing is watering plastic plants. No matter how much energy, care, or love you pour in, they will never grow. I’ve worked with high achievers for decades who look wildly successful on the outside, but feel disconnected and lonely in their relationships. Control, perfectionism, and people pleasing may help you succeed professionally, but they quietly destroy intimacy. Performance is not connection. Pretending is exhausting. And the exhaustion does not come from work. It comes from hiding.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
How hiding parts of yourself creates the illusion of intimacy without real connection

Why making excuses for others is often protecting a fantasy, not a relationship

How social media trains us to mistake performance for closeness

What happens when you stop hiding and start showing up honestly

Real relationships do not require decoding, defending, or constant excuse making. They are clear, consistent, and reciprocal. The moment you stop watering plastic plants and start telling the truth, you give others permission to do the same. Connection does not come from perfection. It comes from presence. The question is not whether authenticity matters. The question is whether you are ready to stop protecting what is not real and start cultivating what actually is.

Connect With Josselyne
Website: beunmessablewith.com
Instagram: @beunmessablewith

If you’ve ever said, “I’m not a public speaker,” this episode is going to flip the script.

You weren’t born afraid to speak. You were taught to perform, to hide, to present instead of be present. Today’s guest, Eduardo Placer, is on a mission to end that game for good and set you free to communicate like the leader you were born to be.

He went from being a stage actor stuck in a story of failure to building a global coaching business that helps leaders dismantle the fear, shame, and survival mode that hijacks their voice.

Eduardo doesn’t just teach you how to speak. He teaches you how to stand in who you are and be fully self-expressed in any room, on any stage, in any moment.

You’ll learn:
Why most speaking advice keeps you disconnected and overthinking

How to break free from the fear that makes you sound fake or freeze

The single word he made up that will forever change how you think about presentations

What it actually means to lead from “we” instead of “me”

This episode is about owning your voice, your impact, and your power to create. Not someday. Now.

So if you’re done shrinking, second-guessing, or settling for surviving when you’re here to lead, listen in. Then share it with everyone you know who’s playing small because they’re afraid to speak up.

The world doesn’t need more perfect presentations. It needs YOU.

Want to discover your level of UNMESSABLEWITHNESS and your default mode as well as how to elevate your power and resilience? 

Take the Unmessablewith Archetype 3-minute quiz

Check out Eduardo’s free From Story To Spotlight Resource + Mini-Training on how to identify the narrative that makes your speaking irresistible and in demand.

Find Eduardo At: 
Instagram    https://www.linkedin.com/in/eduardoplacer/                

Connect With Josselyne
Website: beunmessablewith.com
Instagram: @beunmessablewith