Raising Boys & Girls

This episode highlights how boys develop true capability by practicing risk, emotional regulation, and perseverance in everyday moments. David and Sissy explain that modern life often removes these growth opportunities, and encourage parents to allow healthy struggle, teach regulation tools, and step back from rescuing—so boys can grow into resilient men whose strength becomes safety. 

Resources mentioned:


Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son Can Build On for Life by David Thomas


Strong and Smart: A Boy's Guide to Building Healthy Emotions by David Thomas

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Kari Kampakis shares why today’s girls need both grace and grit—the ability to stay kind while also developing strength and resilience. She encourages parents to help their daughters build discernment, confidence, and identity, while preparing them for challenges like comparison, friendship struggles, and fear of failure. Ultimately, Kari emphasizes raising kids who are willing to take risks, trust God, and grow into capable, grounded adults.

Resources mentioned:


Love Her Well: 10 Ways to Find Joy and Connection with Your Teenage Daughter by Kari Kampakis


More Than a Mom: How Prioritizing Your Wellness Helps You (and Your Family) Thrive by Kari Kampakis


Liked: Whose Approval Are You Living For? by Kari Kampakis


Yours, Not Hers: 40 Devotions to Stop Comparisons and Love Your Life by Kari Kampakis


Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son Can Build On for Life by David Thomas


Kari’s Zucchini Croquettes + Tzatziki


Kari’s Greek Village Salad + Briam


Kari’s Traditional Chicken Skewers

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This episode explores how to raise capable girls by addressing three key challenges—feelings, failings, and fear. Sissy Goff shares how girls often feel deeply, internalize failure, and face increasing anxiety, but reminds parents that these struggles don’t define them. By helping girls understand their emotions, practice kinder self-talk, and face fears with courage, we can guide them toward living with confidence and capability. 

Resources mentioned:


Emotional Agility by Susan David


Prince Caspian by C.S. Lewis

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Dr. Arthur Brooks shares that happiness isn’t a feeling to chase, but a direction shaped by habits—cultivating enjoyment, satisfaction, and meaning. He highlights the importance of investing in faith, family, friendships, and meaningful work, while cautioning against the impact of screens and constant distraction. With practical insight, he encourages parents to prioritize time together, model love through action, and help their kids build lives rooted in purpose rather than achievement.

Resources mentioned: 


The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness by Dr. Arthur Brooks


Build the Life You Want by Dr. Arthur Brooks and Oprah Winfrey


Love Your Enemies by Arthur C. Brooks


The Happiness Files by Arthur C. Brooks

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Dr. Aliza Pressman shares five research-based principles—relationship, reflection, regulation, rules, and repair—that empower parents to raise resilient, capable kids, emphasizing that growth comes not from perfection but from consistent connection, healthy boundaries, and allowing kids to experience manageable challenges. 

Resources mentioned:


The 5 Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans by Aliza Pressman

Raising Good Humans Podcast

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