Sex Chat for Christian Wives

We address the messiness of sex—what contributes to it, what's normal (and what's not), and how to deal with the mess.
Sponsors
Join podcast co-host J. Parker and Brad & Kate Aldrich of Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network for a 7-day cruise starting Valentine's Day 2027! Click HERE to learn more about this opportunity to sail to better intimacy.
Married Dance is a Christian-friendly sex toy store, with a nudity-free, marriage-focused environment and discreet billing and shipping. Check them out HERE.
From the Bible


Husband
I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride.
I gather my myrrh with my spices.
I eat my honeycomb with my honey.
I drink my wine with my milk.

Narrator
Eat, friends!
Drink, be intoxicated with love!

Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB)
Resources


Why Are You Leaking After Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Spiritual Fulfillment by Clifford & Joyce Penner
Episode 101: Enjoying Sex, with Joyce Penner
Female Ejaculation: Is It Real? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Sexual Intimacy & Your Period: Tips for Wives - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Episode 202: What Women Ask Us (In Person) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (we address anal sex in this episode)
Episode 184: The Power of a Shower (Quickie)
Love Mop Premium Cotton After Care Towel | Amazon
Liberator Fascinator Throw | Married Dance
Dental Dam Cunnilingus Barrier | Married Dance
goodwipes pH Balanced for Feminine Hygiene | Amazon
healthy hoohoo Feminine Wipes, Individually Wrapped | Amazon
Sliquid Splash Gentle Feminine Wash | Married Dance
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here.

If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J. Parker on how to make wearing lingerie work for you (whether or not your husband cares). Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

We answer listener questions about the struggle of having sexual intimacy after miscarriage, grieving the long lack of intimacy, whether a wife should self-pleasure after her husband's betrayal shut down sex, and how to maintain sexual intimacy with adult kids living at home.
Sponsor
Join podcast co-host J. Parker and Brad & Kate Aldrich of Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network for a 7-day cruise starting Valentine's Day 2027! Click HERE to learn more about this opportunity to sail to better intimacy.
From the Bible
The Message Paraphrase of 1 Corinthians 7:3–6: Certainly—but only within a certain context. It's good for a man to have a wife, and for a woman to have a husband. Sexual drives are strong, but marriage is strong enough to contain them and provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in a world of sexual disorder. The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it's for the purposes of prayer and fasting—but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it. I'm not, understand, commanding these periods of abstinence—only providing my best counsel if you should choose them.
Resources

The Higher Desire Wife: Understanding and Help for Christian Women Navigating Mismatched Sex Drives by J. Parker
Episode 255: When Same-Sex Arousal Enters Marriage, with Vicki Tiede
Better Help Therapy Network
Studying the Psalms: Lament — InspiritEncourage
Episode 116: Lament As A Healing Practice After Betrayal (1/2) - HopeForWives: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal
Episode 117: Lament As A Healing Practice After Betrayal (2/2) - HopeForWives: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal
Episode 212: What About Masturbation? - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Hope For Wives Podcast: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal
The Sarah Society
Sexual Clarity for Christian Women • Strong Wives
What Will the Kids Think? | The Forgiven Wife
Making Love When You Have Teens in the Home - Hot, Holy & Humorous
The Joy of Earbuds | The Forgiven Wife
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here.

If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker

This week's quickie is from J Parker about quality vs. frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Which sex research conclusions can we trust, especially as believers? In this second of a two-part series, we discuss sex research with licensed psychologist, college professor, and certified Christian sex therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese.
Sponsor/Special Request
Regent University's Cherish research team invites married adult women to take part in an important study on women's thoughts and feelings around their sexual experience. Participation involves completing a confidential 20-minute online survey. Your privacy will be fully respected and you may choose to opt out at any point; if you choose to participate, more information will be given with regard to informed consent. Your responses will help shed light on an area of women's health that is often underrepresented in research. By joining, you will be contributing to meaningful insights that can improve awareness, resources, and future care for women. Your voice matters, and your voluntary participation can make a real difference. Click HERE to participate. Please contact abigwi3@regent.edu if you have any questions.
From the Bible

Now the Berean Jews were of more noble character than those in Thessalonica, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true. Acts 17:11

But they overcame him
by the blood of the Lamb
and by the word of their testimony,
and they did not love their lives so much that they were afraid to die.
Revelation 12:11 (NET)
Resources

White Stones Podcast with Dr. Jessica McCleese
Jessica McCleese, Psy.D. | Regent University
How to Read a Marriage Book - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Psychologists map out the pathways connecting sacred beliefs to better sex | PsyPost (just one study of several on sexual sanctification)
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here.

If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker