DEENTOUR 123 - Getting to Know Yourself Before Getting Married
This episode goes beyond the romanticized views of marriage and dives into the reality that few talk about. We explore what it really means to be ready for marriage — not just externally, but spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. From setting realistic expectations to knowing yourself before knowing another, we discuss the beauty of love grounded in sincerity, responsibility, and a shared journey toward Allah.Marriage isn’t a finish line — it’s a test of who you are when no one’s watching, and who you become when Allah puts love in your life as a trust, not a trophy.DeenTour is a podcast and channel where 3 brothers showcase their love for islam through reminders, brotherhood, motivation, entertainment, and more!Let us know if you enjoyed this video and if you’d like to see more of this!!Get your Islamic trivia card game with 100 questions to learn more about Islam! https://deenified.com/FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deentourr/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deentourrIntro - 0:00Why do we start things with Bismillah - 0:35Todays topic - 2:00We’ve made marriage a cliche - 2:57Marriage serves a purpose but your life doesn’t depend on it - 4:25Making false promises before marriage - 5:51Understanding your priorities - 7:40The false image that society has painted of marriage - 9:21 The example of the Prophet o uh & Khadija RA - 9:41Building a relationship for the sake of Allah - 10:19It’s okay to have preferences but to be realistic - 12:28Get to know yourself before knowing another person - 12:56Understanding the position you must be in to take the responsibility of marriage - 13:44The mentality you need when you’re ready for marriage - 15:49Finding someone whos near you religiously & spiritually - 16:48Advice for sisters when looking at a man - 17:58Changing your mindset & perspective on life - 18:40Changing the way you think about dua - 20:15Thinking about every good deed as an invitation from Allah - 22:13Everything we have comes from Allah - 23:05Reflect on who you are & your shortcomings - 24:00One thing that will fix your problems - 24:25Developing gratefulness and treating each day like a big event - 28:47Think better of Allah - 30:50The reasons we should marry someone - 31:40Building a bond on sincerity & communicating honestly - 32:41Earning your rights as a spouse - 33:52Be open about who you are and what you struggle with - 35:07Showing mercy to one another - 36:36Jannah is the #1 priority - 37:29Embodying the Quran & Sunnah - 38:22
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DEENTOUR 122 - What It Means to Be a Muslim Today | Identity, Influence & the Heart’s Struggle
In this episode, we dive deep into what it truly means to hold onto your Muslim identity in a world that often misunderstands or misrepresents it. From how media shifts our morals to the silent battle between our hearts and desires, we talk about standing firm in your deen, preserving your heart, and surrounding yourself with people who remind you of Allah. We also reflect on how our podcast journey has impacted our own faith and the importance of leading by example.DeenTour is a podcast and channel where 3 brothers showcase their love for islam through reminders, brotherhood, motivation, entertainment, and more!Let us know if you enjoyed this video and if you’d like to see more of this!!Get your Islamic trivia card game with 100 questions to learn more about Islam! https://deenified.com/FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deentourr/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deentourrIntro - 0:00Misrepresentation of the Muslim Identity - 0:41The things the heart consumes & normalizing the wrong things - 2:50Morals & Ethics go hand in hand in Islam but not in modern day society - 4:53The state of the heart & not realizing when you’re being taken from Allah - 6:47Being demonized for standing on religion - 7:39We all serve something: Allah or our desires - 8:30Qualities that help you draw near to Allah - 9:25Fearing the Creator - 10:47Pushing certain ideologies & the role of social media - 11:47Having meaningful conversations and relationships - 13:20Bonding over love of Allah - 15:30How the podcasts have helped us - 17:00How talking about deen impacts you - 19:05The path in search of knowledge - 21:30Preserving the heart - 22:56Spreading the deen & leading by example - 25:24Learning, understanding, & acting upon knowledge - 28:37Outro - 31:32
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DEENTOUR 121 - Taking on responsibilities as a Man in Islam
In this episode, we dive deep into the Islamic definition of manhood. From emotional intelligence to God-consciousness, we explore the traits that make a man truly strong in the eyes of Allah. We discuss how the Prophet ﷺ was the perfect example of masculinity, how to lead with responsibility, and what we’d want in a son-in-law. DeenTour is a podcast and channel where 3 brothers showcase their love for islam through reminders, brotherhood, motivation, entertainment, and more!Let us know if you enjoyed this video and if you’d like to see more of this!!Get your Islamic trivia card game with 100 questions to learn more about Islam! https://deenified.com/FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deentourr/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deentourrIntro - 0:00Hussien got a haircut - 0:30The topic: What it means to be a man in Islam - 3:51What defines a man? - 5:31Why the Prophet (pbuh) was the best example - 6:31God consciousness - 7:53Having true belief in Allah & His plan - 9:25Developing emotional intelligence - 10:30Earning your rights as a man - 12:25Some characteristics we’d look at in a potential husband if we had daughters - 13:36Not everything easy if going to be good for you - 16:39Having responsibilities over other people - 18:24The ability to control anger - 22:17How would we handle if we found out our daughter was in an abusive relationship - 22:53Lowering the gaze - 24:49Devaluing your partner - 27:51Having gheera out love for Allah - 28:58The example of Prophet Muhammad pbuh - 30:05Taking on the role a man should be natural - 30:53Outro - 31:40
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DEENTOUR 120 - Being Muslim Online, Sincerity in actions, & Good character
In this podcast we talked about the positive and negative impacts social media has had on us making content in our life & our religion. Social media is a very interesting place because we live in a world driven by clout and being Muslim in that space tests your faith, character, and sincerity.DeenTour is a podcast and channel where 3 brothers showcase their love for islam through reminders, brotherhood, motivation, entertainment, and more!Let us know if you enjoyed this video and if you’d like to see more of this!!Get your Islamic trivia card game with 100 questions to learn more about Islam! https://deenified.com/FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deentourr/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deentourrIntro - 0:00How does being in front of the camera affect your sincerity? - 1:00Keeping your intentions in the right place - 3:45Guiding others to do good where you can - 4:50The lens we’re placed for being “Muslim” content creators - 5:26Social media can be a very fake place - 8:06Don’t judge someone’s character based on what someone else says - 10:15The topic of good character - 11:12Moral strictness doesn’t bring you power - 13:07Dealing with arrogance - 14:07Trying to understand other perspectives for struggles in life - 14:50How hated pride & arrogance are - 16:05It’s easy to change your mind but not as easy to change your heart - 17:35How shaytan attacks your heart - 18:09Control what you can control & your choices - 19:19Naturally turning away from bad habits & sins - 20:51Stages of a sin & how Allah rewards good doers - 22:41How you deal with struggle & how religion has changes your life - 23:47Knowing the relationship between the Creator & the creation - 25:45The moments that push you to do better start with reflection - 26:55How the stories in the Quran should push you to do better - 28:50Praying & making dua for others - 29:41Outro - 32:18
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DEENTOUR 119 - Why you need a relationship with God
In this podcast we talk about why we need a relationship with God. The foundation of our lives starts with our relationship to the Creator and developing love for Him through loyalty, sacrifice, good works, and faith is how we learn how to develop a relationship with others for His sake. DeenTour is a podcast and channel where 3 brothers showcase their love for islam through reminders, brotherhood, motivation, entertainment, and more!Let us know if you enjoyed this video and if you’d like to see more of this!!Get your Islamic trivia card game with 100 questions to learn more about Islam! https://deenified.com/FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deentourr/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deentourrIntro - 0:00How a relationship with God opens up many doors - 1:57Don’t overburden yourself - 3:03Doing things for the sake of Allah even when you don’t want to - 5:11Obedience starts with the Creator - 5:59Love for Allah should be unconditional - 6:35Admitting to Allah when you’re in need - 8:41Whatever situation you’re in, if it brings you close to Allah is a blessing - 9:48Always feel the duas you make will be answered - 11:02Have belief in all your duas - 12:39Hang around people who push you towards your goals - 14:11There is nothing impossible for Allah, make that dua - 14:49We lack patience & want instant gratification - 16:26Don’t direct your anger towards Allah - 17:30How impactful knowledge & wisdom are - 18:26Allah tests you to help you become better - 19:15What does the remembrance of Allah do? - 20:25Our purpose in life - 22:27Allah has rights over you over anything else - 23:40Your purpose for Allah and attaining Jannah - 24:30How to constantly renew your iman - 25:40Trying your best in all parts of life - 27:45Staying humble - 29:34The qualities Allah loves & hates - 29:59Outro - 30:47
An unapologetically real podcast hosted by 3 muslim brothers. We dive into topics that range all over from life and the deen to all that’s in between, while keeping Islam the center point. Our goal is to allow anyone regardless of religion to be engaged in the conversation and be able to take the lessons and advice we hope to provide and be able to use it in their lives to help them. Life is like a DETOUR, we just use the DEEN (Way of life in Islam) to navigate it. :)
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