Merry Little Ex-Mas - Conscious Uncoupling, Gingerbread Throwdowns & One Extremely Messy Holiday Rom-Com
Any takeaways from this episode?Welcome to the Rom-Com Rescue Holiday Extravaganza! Six holiday rom-coms over the next six weeks!Conscious uncoupling, gingerbread throwdowns, one last “totally normal” family Christmas, inconvenient new crushes… and Pierson Fode in candy-cane underwear. That’s right. We went there.This week on RomCom Rescue, Kira and Dr. Izzy break down Netflix’s brand-new 2025 holiday rom-com Merry Little Ex-Mas starring Alicia Silverstone, Oliver Hudson, Jamila Jamil, and Pierson Fode— and let’s just say: It is was rough for us.Not magical. Not cozy. Not even Hot Frosty-level cute.But it is full of relationship red flags, questionable choices, unmatched chaos, and enough emotional immaturity to keep two therapists busy until 2028.We cover:🎄 Conscious Uncoupling… or Conscious Unraveling? Why this movie is basically a PSA for “please don’t date people who aren’t actually divorced yet.”🍪 The Gingerbread House Incident Heard ‘Round the World Unregulated emotions, public meltdowns, and one truly tragic cookie crime scene.❤️ New Crushes, Old Wounds & Pierson Fode Why he was here. Why he should’ve been an elf. And why none of it made sense.👨👩👧👦 The Kids Who Deserved Better Divorce logistics, blurred boundaries, holiday blending gone wrong, and the parenting decisions that had us yelling at our TVs.🌱 Kate’s Villain Era (and Environmental Rage) Control issues, projection, victim mindset, and why being “right” doesn’t make you good at relationships.🏡 Why the Ending Doesn’t Actually Fix Anything Indoor grills are not couples therapy. Perfume ≠ emotional maturity. And “let’s just go back to how things were” is not a plot arc.💡 Love Lessons (If We Squint) – Don’t date someone mid-divorce. – Don’t bring new partners home for the holidays when your marriage isn’t actually over. – Take responsibility for your choices. – Stop projecting your fears onto your kids. – And for the love of Santa: get a therapist before you get a rebound.📉 The Final Verdict: Tacos: 1/5 Love Lessons: 1/5 Butterflies: 0 Plot Holes: Infinity🎧 LISTEN NOWFind RomCom Rescue wherever you get your podcasts — Apple, Spotify, Amazon, Google, PocketCasts — all the places.Next week: We’re tackling Champagne Problems (Netflix, Nov 19) with Minka Kelly & Tom Woznicka. Fingers crossed it’s better. (It has to be. Right?)And remember:We believe we create our own happily ever afters… and please, for the love of god, don’t date people before they’re divorced.Come talk with us about your favorite rom-coms on instagram, tiktok, & youtube and Bluesky!Get show notes, transcripts, and more information on at Rom-ComRescue.com