Transformation Church

Sex is a topic that impacts everyone and culture doesn’t own it because God made it.  In Week 6 of Relationship Goals: In Real Life, Pastor Charles Metcalf reminds us that one of our first commands was to be fruitful and multiply.  God also created a standard for how it’s meant to be experienced. God is not anti-sex, He’s anti-sin. When we miss His design, it impacts our soul, our relationships, and our future. Through both biblical truth and practical insight, Pastor Charles shows how sex was designed to bond, not break, and why misusing it can lead to disconnection, numbness, and confusion. In this message you’ll understand three goals of godly sex: purity, serving, and sacredness. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this message will challenge you to honor God with your body and align your life with His original design.
Scripture References:
 1 Corinthians 6:12–13, 19–20 NLT
 Genesis 1:3 NLT
 1 Peter 1:16 NLT
 1 Corinthians 5:12–20 NLT
 Proverbs 6:32 NLT

Culture may try to convince us that it’s better to be alone, but the truth is marriage is still winning. The real question is: are you ready for it? In Week 5 of Relationship Goals: In Real Life, Pastor Michael Todd reminds us that marriage works 100% of the time when we do it God’s way. While culture often teaches that it’s better to marry than to burn with lust, Pastor Mike challenges us to pursue the greater option - developing self-control and surrendering our lives fully to God.This message reminds wives that they are anointed for their husbands and encourages men to provide safety, leadership, and covering for their wives. Whether you are single, dating, or married, this message will challenge you to prepare your heart, build godly character, and become the person God is calling you to be before stepping into the covenant of marriage.

Scripture References
3 John 1:2 NKJV
Proverbs 18:22 NKJV
Proverbs 31:10 NIV
Hebrews 13:4 NIV
1 Corinthians 7:6-9 NLT
Ephesians 5:1-2 NLT
Ephesians 5:22-33 NLT
Ephesians 5:21 NLT
Galatians 2:20 NIV
Genesis 2:21 NLT
Mark 12:30-31 NIV
Luke 14:25-28 NLT
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 NLT
Matthew 19:6 NIV

This message is for anyone preparing for promise after pain. In Week 4 of Relationship Goals: In Real Life, Pastor Michael Todd reminds us that restoration is possible after any level of devastation, destruction, death, divorce, or disappointment. Looking at the story of Ruth, we see how she unexpectedly became a second-time single, yet God redeemed her story and restored her legacy through her relationship with Boaz. If you’ve experienced heartbreak or loss, this message will encourage you to trust God again, make faith-filled decisions, and move forward beyond disappointment. We pray it empowers you to let God take the broken pieces of your story and restore them into something greater than you imagined.

Scripture References:
Ruth 1:1–5 NLT
Ruth 1:9–11,16 NLT
Proverbs 3:5–6 NLT
Ruth 1:20–21 NLT
Ruth 2:1–3 NLT
Proverbs 31:27 NIV
Ruth 2:11–12 NLT
Ruth 3:1–6 NLT
Joel 2:25 ESVMatthew 1:5 NLT

Culture has sold us a counterfeit version of love that feels exhilarating, euphoric, and full of uninterrupted bliss, pleasure and enjoyment. It’s like everyone wants to be “drunk in love.” But in Week 2 of Relationship Goals: In Real Life, Pastor Michael Todd reminds us that no one makes wise decisions while intoxicated. Using a powerful illustration with drunk goggles, Pastor Mike shows how being drunk in your soul can distort your walk, your choices, and your relationships. Rooted in 1 Thessalonians 5:5–8, this message calls us to be sober in our soul so we can build relationships with clarity and wisdom. You’ll discover the four things a healthy soul must believe and gain revelation on how to build relationships that are strong, stable, and God-centered moving forward.

Scripture References
3 John 1:2 NKJV
1 Thessalonians 5:5-8 NIV