20. The episode all about TESTOSTERONE (ft. Eliah Reber)
This week we are joined by Eliah Reber for a fun and honest conversation about the changes that come with testosterone. From voice drops to body hair, Benji and Eliah build a tier list of their favorite (and least favorite) changes, sharing laughs, stories, and personal perspectives along the way.
Instagram @eliah.rbr
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19. Trans Voices vs. Toxic Masculinity
In this episode we cover two conversations. First we talk about the realities of being trans content creators, from finding a voice online to handling visibility and vulnerability. Then we turn to toxic masculinity, how it shows up in our lives, how it affects relationships, and what it takes to push back against it.
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18. Dysphoria in bed
This week Benji finally tries the wig!! We also talk about what it really means to stay present during sex when anxiety keeps showing up. From overthinking and performance pressure to the ups and downs of dating and learning to trust people, we open up about how these struggles shape intimacy and connection. Honest, unpolished, and very real!
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17. What is ballroom? (ft. Chicago and Samantha Angels)
In this episode, we dive into the world of ballroom! It's a space built on creativity, competition, and community. We’ll talk about how ballroom started, what happens at a ball, and why it’s such an important part of LGBTQ+ culture. From houses to categories to voguing, this is an introduction to the energy and history that make ballroom unforgettable. Featuring Swedish Princess Samantha Angels and Chicago Angels.
Instagram
@_sammy_angels
@chicago.castillo
Beat at the end - Flute HA by Esengo Angels
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16. How to know if you're trans
So… how do you actually know if you’re trans? In this episode, we get real about the big, messy, exciting, and sometimes scary process of figuring out your gender. We’ll talk about the little signs you might notice, what gender euphoria feels like, and why there’s no one “right” way to be trans. Whether you’re questioning, already out, or just starting to wonder, this is a safe space to sort through those “what ifs” and maybe find a little clarity along the way.
Two lifelong best friends—one a trans man, the other a trans woman—share honest, unfiltered conversations about transitioning, identity, and everything in between. From hormones to relationships, misconceptions to everyday wins, they bring humor, heart, and real-life experience to the table. It’s not always pretty, but it’s always real. Tune in for laughs, insight, and a deeper look at what it really means to be trans.